How to Choose Flowers

Choosing flowers is perhaps the most overwhelming part of the process for many guys, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’ve never sent your girlfriend blooms before, remember that there are some tried-and-true options that everyone will like. Types of flowers like roses, tulips, daisies and mums are all very popular, which means they’re all pretty safe bets. Another good option? Any bouquet with a variety of different flowers. Diverse and colorful arrangements are lovely and very well-liked. As you get to know your girlfriend better, ask her what she likes – that way you’ll be better prepared when sending her a bouquet in the future.

Should You Include a Note?

Sure, flowers can say what you’re feeling without you having to use words, but it’s still a good idea to include a message when sending blossoms to your significant other. Rather than a simple “Happy Anniversary,” template-like message, say something personal and from the heart. The note doesn’t have to be long or complicated, but if it’s written by you, she’ll love it even more.

No matter what the occasion, flowers make a lovely gift that your girlfriend will definitely appreciate.

For the most part, dating is great. However, it can also be seriously confusing and difficult at times. Who pays for dinner? What type of relationship is he looking for? Does she like me? Luckily, there’s one thing that doesn’t have to be at all confusing about relationships: sending flowers. In fact, you almost can’t go wrong when buying your girlfriend flowers – the gesture alone is thoughtful and generous, and any bouquet you choose will be beautiful. That said, if you’re planning on sending flowers to a lady in your life and you’re finding the process a bit puzzling, that’s OK. Take a look at this guide to sending flowers to your girlfriend:

Why Send Flowers?

Flowers are one of the most widely popular gifts across the world, which is why they’re such a great option when you’re considering gifts you may want to give your girlfriend. Sending flowers is an easy way to show that you care about her, that you’re thinking about her or even that you love her, when you don’t feel like telling her is quite enough.

When to Send Flowers

There are a number of occasions when it’s customary to send someone flowers, including birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine’s Day. Sending flowers on these days is often actually a bit easier, since you’ll be able to find occasion specific arrangements. For instance, Teleflora’s Brilliant Birthday Blooms is a beautiful way to celebrate a birthday, while the Be My Love bouquet can help you wish your sweetheart a happy anniversary.

There are other occasions that may call for flowers that aren’t quite as set in stone, though. Say you want to apologize for something or congratulate her on receiving a promotion at work, for instance. Flowers can help you do that!

On Being Spontaneous

Just because flowers are often sent on special occasions doesn’t mean that’s the only time they’re appropriate and appreciated. There’s a lot to be said for making the gesture spontaneously – when it’s unexpected this gift can be even sweeter.

True Romance Bouquet with Red Roses

Where to Send Flowers

There are two places it makes sense to send flowers: her home and her work. Sending flowers to her work can be a lot of fun because she’ll be able to show them off to co-workers and enjoy seeing them on her desk for several days. If you’re opting to send them to her house or apartment, make sure she’ll be there at the time they arrive (Teleflora’s arrangements are all hand-delivered directly to the door).

When To Buy Her Flowers: The Happy Times Principle

We all have a friend who never wants to hang out, but only calls when he wants something? Annoying, right? Well, it’s the same idea when it comes to giving a girl flowers. You can’t just give her flowers when you want something or when times get tough. Early on, you need to set a precedent, by giving her flowers when things are good. This creates an association: “Flowers = Happy Times”.

Then, when you make her mad or get in a fight, you can buy her flowers to recall those happy times. I call it the Happy Times Principle.

Here are some Happy Times to consider giving flowers:

• To Say “I’m Sorry”. Guys, we all know this works, but it works best when following the Happy Times Principle. Keep reading…
• Just Because. This is the most important part of the Happy Times Principle. You must — absolutely must — give her flowers at random occasions “just because,” two to four times a year. To make it really seem random, try to time it at least a week or two after any major events or big arguments. This keeps her on her toes, makes you seem slightly dangerous and unpredictable, and helps maintain the illusion that you both live in a Romantic Happy-Times Fantasy Bubble.
• Third Date. Got a new gal, and want to show her you’re a real gentleman? Pick her up at eight, and surprise her with a nice bouquet. It may seem corny, but she will love it. I’m going to repeat that. No matter how corny you think this is, she will love it. This works on any date, not just the third. However, flowers on the first date may be a bit too old fashioned, and flowers on the first OR second dates may create an unrealistic expectation that you are some kind of superhuman “perfect guy”. Which you are not. So, no flowers before the third date.
• Birthday. Optional. There’s always cake.
• Anniversary. Obvious, but flowers are a great way to let her know you care about your anniversary — and what better way to associate flowers with Happy Times?
• The Next Morning. You guys shared an amazing new experience last night. Trust. Lust. Communication. Send her some flowers with a little note that says “thank you for opening my eyes last night.” Remember, you’re giving flowers to recall the what? That’s right, the Happy Times.
• Valentine’s Day. Okay, this one is really obvious. Here in the US, Valentine’s Day is a special day that was invented by flower companies to force you to spend three or four times more than you normally would on flowers. But I’m going to let you in on a little secret. In fact, it’s: